Summary of this Site
Once a child has been molested, whether it be once or an ongoing trauma, it is extremely hard for them to deal with the problem and the after effects which are likely to follow them through life. Their interactions between family, friends, acquaintances or meeting new people also suffers.
Whether the abuse comes from:
- Your father or other family members, (this is termed incest),
- Your schoolteacher,
- The priest from your local church,
- Your next-door neighbor,
- A friend,
- Or any other person whether you know them or not,
It makes no difference.
For the most part the emotional trauma will be detrimental. Of course some will suffer more difficulties than others, however in most cases the effects are similar. We talk about these effects and how they can be dealt with.
Have We Addressed Your Situation?
Whilst you may feel that we are not addressing your particular situation, please understand to do that is impossible. However feel assured that no matter what the circumstances of your abuse, you can recover by utilising the information on this site.
Whether you are a male abused by a male or female, or whether you are a female abused by a male or female, the help is here. Yes you may feel that your situation is a lot worse than others, and to you it will feel that way. Be assured that another abused person may feel their situation is worse than yours. The fact is that childhood sexual abuse is hard to deal with for most who have been abused.
Help With Aspects of Child Sex Abuse
You will find help with dealing with your family, how they treat you, and what you should do if it is incest.
We will be discussing on this site the effects that sex abuse has on relationships of not only the child, but of the adult the child becomes. Of how intimate relationships are effected and how the effects can be overcome with time. We will also show you how it is possible to have sex with your loved one without the flashbacks and trauma of the memories.
With time we hope your bad memories will fade and you will be able to carry on as a happy, life loving person.
Many have broached the thought that perhaps if the social stigma was not as severe the effects would not be as traumatic. If society stopped stressing the victimization of these ones perhaps they could get on with their lives with a little more dignity.
Instead they are taught to think of themselves as victims. This has a huge bearing on the emotional effects of those who have gone through or are going through child molestation.
It is interesting to note that some who have lied about sexual abuse as a child, through the use of leading questioning or pressuring, have endured the same effects as those of true victims.
This is of course a whole new debate one we will not be entering into here.
However it is important to note that it is the individuals experience and not the event itself that determines whether they will suffer from trauma or not.
It Is A Crime and Uncurable
However what we will say, is that this is a crime and no child should have to endure any part of it. This crime is punishable by imprisonment. The sad part is when these ones come out they will not have been rehabilitated as there is no cure. Instead they will most likely go right back to doing what they do best, molesting children.
There is no regard for the child, in fact many feel they are doing the child a service. Unfortunately there is nothing that can be said or done to these ones that will change their view. One day in the future perhaps they will be able to cure these ones.
For now though we show you the recourse you have through the legal system, which lawyer you should or shouldn't use if you pursue this path.
It is our aim that you are no longer be plagued by the suffering you now suffer from molestation, but that you can have a happy healthy life and relationships without the guilt that troubles you now.